If you’ve been struggling to have a long term relationship with an amazing person who is most compatible with you, then you might have trouble believing in true love. So when someone talks about how to attract true love, you’re probably going to be a bit sceptical about what they will talk about and if it actually works. But I’m here to tell you that you can have that amazing relationship that you hear about in fairy tales or even see in those movies that have the happy ending and I am living proof of it.
To know how to attract true love, you need to first have faith that it exists and is possible. You need to believe, in order to absorb the information into your subconscious so that you can start to see it as real and true. We don’t know what we don’t know until someone shows us another way that works. For you to see, believe and attract true love into your life, you need to be open to learning and changing your current thoughts, actions and beliefs around relationships.
Attracting true love means that you have to believe that you can create your own life. That means you have to take responsibility for your past relationships, to then empower yourself to create the relationship you have always wanted. This starts by realizing that subconsciously you prefer to be single. So there is something that you learned early on in life about relationships that created your decision that it is better to be single than to be in a relationship.
So now as you get older and start looking for that partner to spend the rest of your life with, you will keep attracting people who will leave you because you still have that old belief that it’s better to be single. This is created through our different experiences growing up so each individual person will have created a different belief about relationships, depending on what was happening around them.
In my 5 step process, you start with knowing what you want in a partner. When you write down what you want, you realize that your past partners weren’t right for you. Then you get excited because you start to believe that you are worthy of having this amazing partner with the attributes that you think of as being most compatible with you.
The next step is to love who you are and this includes being able to be yourself, especially around potential partners who you date. The third step is to let go of the past and this can be difficult if you keep thinking about your ex partners. My fourth step is to take action, and signing up to a online dating website is one action step. Even though you sign up you still need to be active and contact people too and make sure your photos and information you share about yourself is recent.
The last step is to know you deserve the best relationship ever. You will know its the best relationship because you will both work together really well. You will also both be very open and honest with your communication with each other and know that the other person will never intentionally hurt you.
When you are with the right person, you know that they will work at it just as much as you because they will want it to last. There is no such thing as a perfect relationship though, so even when you attract your true love, there will still be disagreements and conflicts because you will both still be different from each other. But the difference with your true love is that even after they see the parts of you that you don’t like to show others, they will still want to be with you and no one else for the rest of their lives and you will feel the same.
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